Stop Managing Fires. Start Building Power, Peace, and Partnership.

Coaching for managing nervous-system overload, money shame, and relationship friction. Transform all three simultaneously using proven frameworks from two published books and 800+ client breakthroughs.

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You're Managing Three Fires At Once

Your nervous system screams. Your bank account whispers shame. Your partner says “we need to talk” and your chest tightens. Most coaches tackle one fire. You need someone who sees how all three burn together — and knows exactly which one to extinguish first.

Nervous system stuck on high alert.

You snap at your partner. Freeze in important meetings. Can't sleep because your brain won't stop running worst-case scenarios. Your body hasn't felt safe in months. 5-minute nervous system resets you can use in bathrooms, cars, or office hallways. Learn exactly which protocol to use when you're frozen versus flooded. Reclaim calm authority in under one week.

Money Conversations Trigger Shame or Silence

Bills pile up. Your partner wants to talk budgets. You avoid the conversation because it always ends in blame or defensiveness. The credit card statement sits unopened for three weeks. Weekly 10-minute money meetings that replace shame with clarity. Exact scripts for financial conversations that don't spiral into fights. Systems designed for households facing real cost-of-living pressure.

Same Relationship Arguments on Repeat

You apologize. They apologize. Two weeks later, you're fighting about the exact same thing. Nothing actually repairs. The distance grows wider every cycle. Research-backed repair scripts that defuse tension in under 3 minutes. Stop the blame loop. Start the healing conversation. Transform conflict into connection using proven frameworks tested with 800+ couples.

The ASHWINGS Approach: Three Pillars. One Integrated System.

Here’s what most coaches miss: your nervous system controls your money decisions. Your money stress destroys your relationships. Your relationship fights dysregulate your nervous system. You can’t fix one without addressing all three. That’s why ASHWINGS works when everything else failed.

Reclaim Your Authority.

5-minute somatic resets that work in bathrooms, cars, or office hallways. Boundary scripts that stop people-pleasing without guilt.

Build An Earn-Manage-Grow Plan

Weekly money routines designed for realities. Shame-free language for financial conversations. Automated savings strategies that respect tight budgets.

Stop The Same Fight.

Research-backed repair scripts that defuse tension in under 3 minutes. Communication templates for partners, teens, and colleagues that actually work.

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The Award I Received as a Writer

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About me

Two Books. Ten Years. 800+ Lives Transformed Across 23 Countries.

You’re doing everything the self-help gurus recommend. Meditation apps downloaded. Budget spreadsheets built. Therapy sessions scheduled. Yet your nervous system still hijacks decisions. Money conversations still trigger panic. The same relationship fights repeat weekly.

Here’s what nobody tells you: treating personal power, money mindset, and relationship friction as separate problems guarantees failure. They’re interconnected. Fix one without the others? Nothing sticks.

I spent a decade building the integrated system other coaches ignore. Nervous system regulation before financial strategy. Shame-free money education alongside relationship repair scripts. Not three separate fires. One cohesive solution tested with 800+ clients.

My Clients

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Book Collection

Read The Books. Transform Your Reality.

A Journey to Clarity

Stop spinning. Start deciding. Build unshakeable clarity in 30 days.

You’re capable, smart, and drowning in decisions. Every choice feels like the wrong one. Your inner critic won’t shut up. You freeze when it’s time to act.

Decision frameworks that bypass analysis paralysis. Learn how your nervous system hijacks clarity and how to reclaim it in under 10 minutes.

A Bold Approach to Breaking Through Trauma

Your body remembers what your mind forgot. Release it through movement.

You’ve tried therapy. Read the books. Know the theory. But your body still flinches. Still freezes. Still carries tension that words can’t touch.

Movement-based trauma release that doesn’t require years of therapy. Somatic practices that work in bathrooms, offices, and parked cars when you need them most.

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Contemporary And Furry

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Upcoming Events

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14 July

New Book Launching Event

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12 July

Writing and Author Seminar

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10 July

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Ready To Stop Managing Fires And Start Building Peace?

Book a free 30-minute clarity call. We’ll identify your biggest block (nervous system, money, or relationships) and map the fastest path to change.

Testimonial

Sweet Words from Readers

I taught the 5-minute reset to my team during a brutal product launch. Three people crying in bathrooms one day, everyone grounded and focused the next. My boss asked me what changed. I just said 'new stress protocol' and left it at that.
Sarah T.
We set up the 10-minute money meeting on Sunday mornings. First one was awkward as hell. By week three, we actually laughed during it. Eight weeks in, we've paid off $6,200 in credit card debt and haven't had a single fight about money. Not one.
James & Priya
Used the boundary script word-for-word in my salary review. My boss blinked twice, paused, then offered more than I asked for. I nearly fell off my chair. That was three months ago and I still can't believe I actually said it out loud.
Mike K.
Set up our first weekly money meeting. Zero arguments. Finally stopped avoiding our credit card statement.
Emma & Robert

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