About me

Built From Breakdown. Proven Through 10 Years and Client Transformations.

I didn’t start ASHWINGS from a mountaintop revelation. I started it from a bathroom floor at 2 AM, panic attack number seven that month, bank account screaming red, and a partner asking “Are we going to make it?”

That was 2015. I was doing everything “right” according to the self-help books. Meditation apps. Budget spreadsheets. Couples therapy. Nothing worked. Because nothing addressed the real problem: my nervous system was hijacking every decision I made.

That realization changed everything.

I spent the next decade studying what actually works. Not theory. Not positive thinking. Practical frameworks that calm your nervous system first, then rebuild from there. I tested every protocol on myself before offering it to a single client. I wrote two books documenting exactly what worked and what failed spectacularly.

Ten years later, ASHWINGS has guided 800+ individuals across 23 countries through the exact transformation I barely survived alone. We don’t sell motivation. We deliver proven systems for personal power, money clarity, and relationship repair. The kind that work in bathrooms at 2 AM when everything feels impossible.

If you’re managing three fires simultaneously (nervous system chaos, money shame, relationship friction), you’re exactly who this is for. I’ve been there. I know the way out.

OUR MISSION

Transform Three Fires Into One Integrated Foundation in 90 Days or Less.

ASHWINGS exists to guide ambitious individuals drowning in overwhelm back to clarity, authority, and peace. We combine nervous system regulation, shame-free financial education, and research-backed relationship repair into one cohesive system. Not three separate problems. One interconnected solution.

Our clients don’t just “feel better.” They negotiate salary increases. They host their first money meeting without arguments. They use repair scripts that stop decade-long conflict patterns in under three minutes. Measurable outcomes. Proven frameworks. Zero fluff.

We serve professionals, entrepreneurs, and parents across six continents who are done with surface-level solutions and ready for transformation that actually sticks.

OUR VALUES

Five Non-Negotiable Principles That Guide Every Client Interaction.

Most coaches talk about integrity, excellence, and authenticity. We all nod. Nobody knows what that actually means on a Tuesday at 9 PM when your partner wants to talk budgets and your chest tightens. These five values are different. They’re specific. They’re how we actually work with every single client. Break one, and the transformation fails. Honor all five, and change becomes inevitable.

System First, Strategy Second

Your brain cannot make good decisions when your body feels unsafe. We regulate your nervous system before tackling money plans or relationship scripts. This isn't optional. It's foundational. (5-minute protocols you can use in bathrooms, cars, or office hallways.)

Money Without Shame

Money conversations should not trigger panic attacks or defensiveness. We replace judgment with education, blame with systems, and avoidance with 10-minute weekly routines designed for real-world budgets and cost-of-living pressure. No spreadsheet shame. Ever.

Research Over Hype

Every framework we teach is rooted in neuroscience, behavioral psychology, and conflict resolution research. If it works in a TED Talk but fails in your kitchen at 10 PM on a Tuesday, we don't teach it. Results over inspiration. Always.

Personalized, Not Prescribed

Your nervous system is unique. Your money story is yours. Your relationship patterns developed over decades. We provide frameworks, then customize them for your specific life, partner, job, and trauma history. One-size-fits-all coaching is lazy coaching.

Small Daily, Massive Results

We don't promise 180-degree life changes in seven days. We build 5 to 10-minute daily practices that compound into lasting authority, clarity, and connection. Small shifts. Repeated daily. Massive results over 90 days.

My Clients

My Beloved Customer & Clients

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My Skills

Contemporary And Furry

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FAQs

Frequently Asked Questions

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